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Dining Etiquette

How to manage a meal in a professional setting

The purpose of dining etiquette rules:

  1. Demonstrate good manners
  2. Keep the table clean and tidy
  3. Communicate with your server
  1. Wait until everyone at your table is served before you begin eating.
  2. Do not season your food until you have tasted it.
  3. Offer items to other before helping yourself. Offer to the left and pass items to the right around the table.
  4. Pass the salt and peper together, they are a pair.
  5. Always pass items in the serving dish.
  6. Start with outside utensils and work your way towards the plate.
  7. Never put a used utensil back on the table, rest them on a plate.
  8. Place used wrappers under a plate.
  9. Tear off pieces of breat to butter as you eat. Do not butter the whole roll at one time.
  10. Use your napkin (blot, don't scrub your face).
  11. Solids to the left of the plate, liquids to the right.
  12. Always follow the lead of your host.